There is a proverb that says “He who is slow to anger has great understanding, But he who is quick-tempered exalts folly”. (Proverbs 14:29 NASB)

I always try to remain calm and not anger quickly. However, there are certain things that really tick me off, mainly: insulting my name, insulting or ridiculing me in front of others, and insulting my friends.

After spending a few years in debating and student politics one learns a bit about the rough and tumble of intelligent sparing. One of the golden rules of which is to play the topic not the person.

Despite this being the rule many still punch below the belt with direct personal attacks.

In particular attacking my name, ridiculing me, and then insulting my friends all in the space of three lines in an email is enough to send me into a rage.

Now some people would suggest it is best to ignore petty insults and don’t let them get to you, after all, there is no point in crying over spilt milk.

However, if those insults have come from someone who should know better than sometimes it is necessary to take offense.

It is not okay, ever, to insult someone’s name (just ask Paul Henry about that one), what they stand for, or their friends. If you have an issue with someone you either take it up with them personally or, if you must in public, tactfully in a non-aggressive way.

Rant over.